Care Counseling: Being Intentional about how you Advocate: Speak up Even if Your Voice Shakes

Being Intentional about how you Advocate: Speak up Even if Your Voice Shakes

Advocating involves speaking up. There are many ways to advocate for change. I really enjoy the visual model of the social change wheel as it illustrates that there are multiple ways to work towards social change. The following areas are listed—

Socially responsible daily behavior
Deliberate and reflective dialogue
Community organizing
Advocacy and raising awareness
Community building
Social innovation and enterprise
Fundraising, giving, and philanthropy
Community and economic development
Protests and demonstrations
Voting and formal political activities
Mutual aid and information association
Volunteering and direct service

Being intentional about how you advocate can help you make a difference in areas that best utilize your interests and abilities.

As with other areas of life, it is important to have a balance. Too little time spend advocating vs. too much can negatively impact your emotional state. Making a difference in meaningful ways, by taking intentional steps in alignment with your values can feel so rewarding. Unfortunately, sometimes fear can get in the way of speaking up.

Did you know that the fear of public speaking impacts approximately 75% of adults?

This fear is so common, in fact, that it is feared more than death (which is approximately 20%).

Those who experience specific phobias and social anxiety are particularly impacted by public-speaking anxiety.

Common fears include the following:

What if my brain freezes (and I forget my words, there is an uncomfortable silence, my delivery is not “perfect”, I say or do something embarrassing, etc.)?

What if my voice shakes?

Common body responses include but are not limited to accelerated heartbeat, sweating, trembling or shaking, nausea, dizziness, light-headedness, and feelings of panic.

It is important to speak up, even if your voice shakes! Since avoidance can reinforce fear, working with underlying issues with a therapist such as social anxiety, panic and anxiety symptoms, lack of self-confidence, fears of judgment, and perfectionism can help.

Learning and practicing relaxation strategies can manage the body’s physiological stress response. Working with cognitive distortions such as catastrophic thinking can help change how we feel. Rehearsal strategies such as practicing without memorizing and using recovery strategies in response to feared outcomes can help increase confidence.

Often the things that we worry about most are not obviously observable to others. By gaining increased control over the areas that are feared, one can feel more empowered and can better advocate for themselves and others.

Your voice is powerful and what you have to say matters!

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